If you have a teenage son and you know they like to play online card games, you might be concerned that their fun play will become and addiction and so you are considering banning their Internet access to those sites. However, you aren’t sure if you should or not. The answer to this dilemma is not an easy one. There is no right or wrong answer and you have to take several things into consideration.
If you are concerned about addiction, is there a reason for you to be? If addiction to substances, food or anything else runs in your family, you may very well have a legitimate reason to be concerned. Many doctors believe that addiction is a genetic issue and that people who have family members with addiction problems are predisposed to the disease. This is something you have to decide for yourself. You may simply need to keep an eye on these innocent games and make sure that they don’t turn into something not so innocent.
If your problem with card games online is one of a moral issue, you have an issue that only you and your child can work out. You can teach a child what you believe, but you can’t make them believe what you do. Playing cards online doesn’t necessarily mean your child is going to gamble. However, even if they do grow up and try the casino games, it doesn’t mean that you failed in teaching them morals; it simply means that they are making their own way in life and they will decide if they have a moral issue with gambling.
If you do decide that you want to limit your teen’s access to card games online, there are many parental software programs that will help you do so. You can actually block certain sites or categories of sites so that they aren’t able to access them.
In the end, you have to decide what is best for you and your child when it comes to card games and whether or not that leads to gambling.